My next goal in life: becoming an expert in tying cherry stems with my tongue

I’ve always been curious about this. The instructions [on the net] on how to do it sound easy enough to follow:

1.  place cherry stem in mouth. Move the stem around until it becomes soft and easy to shape.;

2. fold the stem in half. Positioning the stem lengthwise on the tongue should make folding it a lot easier;

3. take the folded stem between the front teeth. Bite on it gently and make the two ends cross over each other. You should have formed a loop by this time; and

4. push one tip in the loop using your tongue. You may need a few tries to get this last step right and you might need to practice diligently to perfect this last step. It might be hard, but it can be done, especially with patience and determination.

So, sounds easy to do, right? I can have an abundant supply of patience when I want to. That’s one less thing to worry about. The only things I need are the cherry stems (cherry fruits should come with them, of course), the determination to do it, and the time to practice for as long as I want. I should be able to do it then… one of these days.

The curse of the marriage-minded, nosy relatives

I really wonder why meddling relatives feel it is their noble duty to see everyone married. Since I’ve reached my current age – actually, since about I graduated from college – relatives, in the guise of being concern (hah!), never thought twice about poking their noses in my private life, particularly in my non-existent love life. I don’t really know why, but every time talks turned to this and that married relative, they’d always end up discussing me and marriage (I wish I could let them know that putting my name in the same sentence as marriage makes me shudder 😦 ). At first, I could just shrug and brush them off with “It is very expensive to raise a family these days.” Sure, I’d also want to have a child to love someday, but that’s not to mean I would want marriage to necessarily go along with it. But I could only deal with constant shrugging and giving a half-truth for a reason before I came to point when I was close to screaming every time I was asked about marriage. Honestly, they couldn’t be that blind not to notice that not all married people ended up happy and contented, and that not all happy people are married.

I have nothing against marriage per se, but I don’t intend to jump into something I consider sacred and should last forever just because everybody is doing it. I may sound very cliched, but when and if I marry, it should be for keeps, and with someone that I love and respect..  someone I could see myself spending my old age with and someone who feels the same for me. I know I am very idealistic and too much of a hopeless romantic to believe I’d ever find such a person in this lifetime, but that doesn’t mean that I should just abandon my ideology and jump into marriage with the first person who asked, just because I needed someone to grow old with. I’m sorry to say that my observations so far tell me that not all  marriages guarantee happiness, nor do they guarantee that every married person will have someone to watch the sunset with until they grow old and gray.

About lunchtime on Saturday, my father’s brother came with his son (my cousin). They invited us to the cousin’s wedding in the following month. After a while, this aunt (my mother’s brother’s wife) came and the talk turned, as usual, to me and marriage. I should have expected it… I should have seen the signs and should just have locked myself upstairs and refused to come down even if they threatened to sic the neighbor’s friendly puppy on me if I refused to subject myself to those psychotic episode-inducing talks some more. But as it was, I just sat there, silently eating my lunch while this auntie prattled about the importance of marriage to a woman and the benefits she’d get from it. I smiled and shrugged and gave my usual reason for being still “pitiably single”. But when she told me I’d surely regret it if I didn’t do something to snag me a man, I was almost not able to stop myself from letting lose the cutting retort that sat on the tip of my tongue the moment they started talking about the practicality of marriage. I beg to disagree, but being single has its benefits, just as being married has its drawbacks. If she’d just bother to really observe her own family, she’d have noticed that marriage doesn’t always work the way she thinks and believes it should. Honestly, nosy relatives should just shove their “concern” where it is appreciated.

Salon de Rose disappointment

I really don’t like saying “I told you so”s, but since I felt that saying it to myself is justified, I’m going to tell me it, anyway. So… “I told you so.” There.

Against my better judgment and despite the negative reviews I’ve read about the Salon de Rose branch in SM, I still decided to give it a chance. After all, I couldn’t very well say something not nice about the establishment when I haven’t tried it yet. I figured that since I have been satisfied with their BTC branch, I’d also find their SM branch okay. Besides, I don’t need a fancy haircut, just something that doesn’t require too much time to style.

Yesterday afternoon after work, I finally gathered enough courage and dragged myself to SM. Line decided to go with me (to give me comfort for when the stylist mangled my hair). I was actually kind of expecting to be disappointed with the new hair, but that wasn’t enough to make me change my mind about trying the place. It wasn’t seven yet when we arrived there. One girl at the reception area took my name and informed me I was eighth in the wait list. It was fine. I was okay with waiting, as long as I would eventually be attended to. So we sat there and waited. Eight o’clock came and went but still no staff was available to serve me. I was still quite optimistic around then. When a few more minutes passed and all the people who were waiting had either been served or decided to no longer wait since it was almost closing time, I was starting to get apprehensive, especially when I noticed that Line and I were the only customers left. When Line jokingly remarked that maybe they had forgotten that they still have a customer waiting, I approached the reception area (there were several staff milling about there) to ask if somebody was already free to serve me. Heck, by the time I asked I was prepared to get a crappy haircut, knowing that whoever would serve me would already be tired after a day’s work. I prepped myself for it, and I wouldn’t really be too disappointed if I left there with hair too short for my liking. I just wanted to get a haircut and be done with it. But nooo, getting a haircut, crappy or otherwise, was not in my cards that night. Guess what answer I got for my question? She said they were sorry but they could no longer entertain me because all their stylists were still occupied blah blah blah… that their customers wanted to get this or that treatment for their hair blah blah blah so they no longer had time for me. Why in heaven’s name couldn’t she have told us that earlier so we’d still be able to get to other salons? It was not as if they would need to spend money on long distance calls to tell us – the reception area was just an arm’s length away from where we were sitting. How hard could it be to drag their feet a few steps and tell us that? Were they waiting until they were minutes from closing to inform me that they could not give me a bloody haircut after all? They knew they wouldn’t be able to accommodate me, they should at least have the decency to tell us that so we’d not lose any more time for nothing. I was really disappointed and irritated. So much for giving them the benefit of the doubt.

I am not saying people are better off going to other salons. For all I know, their other customers are really satisfied with their services. They should be, or they wouldn’t keep coming back. I am just speaking from personal experience. But I’m never going back there again. I still need a haircut, though, and it is making me antsy since last night.  I’ll try Ricky Reyes after work today.  I just hope I wouldn’t go home disappointed again. *I’m crossing my fingers for that.

NRT, hopefully

According to Ley, he was – is – making an itinerary for our NRT (North Road Trip). I don’t know if he is just trying to pull our legs or what, seeing that some of us still want to go on one. We actually talked about touring the northern part of Cebu after our SRT, but other priorities arose. Things got busy and somehow the plan for NRT was shelved. We’ve forgotten about it, and I personally cannot see an NRT for us in the horizon, seeing that no one really seems excited about it anymore. Well, maybe except for Jen who still brings it up from time to time. Her enthusiasm is not just contagious enough for us to catch. Maybe now that Ley’s mentioned making plans for it, even posting about it in his FB account, it would happen. Maybe we could convince the other guys to go with us. It would be fun visiting old churches and taking group pictures in cemeteries again. 😀

South Road Trip 2008

I was making copies of all my niece’s pictures the other day when I stumbled upon the pics we (that is, me and some officemates) took on February 23 and 24 of 2008. At Jen’s instigation, we planned and took a trip, which we still call SRT  (South Road Trip) until now.

There were thirteen of us, including Line‘s two pamangkins, Erin and Sean. We rented a van, and Line ended up volunteering her dad to be our driver since none of us knew how to drive.

Our first stop was Carcar Church. Line and Yam/Uzi took some pictures of the church. Line and Jen braved the bell tower, which, according to Jen stank of bats’ urine). Somebody suggested (I think it was Ley) that we visit this old, popular house in Carcar. Unfortunately, the place was  not open to visitors because of some reasons that I, for the life of me, can no longer remember.

Our next stop was Mantayupan Falls in Barili. The place was great. There were only a few other people when we went there. According to Ley, the resident expert when it comes to anything and everything about Cebu, it was because the place was not yet known to many people. We had lunch there (we bought our food in Carcar because there were not many stores around the area, and if there were, you”d probably have to walk miles to get there).

Mantayupan Falls. Isn’t she beautiful?

Group picture (minus Line, Yam, Uzi), with paparazzi Ley in the background.

We made several stops along the way, mostly to admire the view and take pictures. Line, her papa, the kids, and Uzi were not in the group pic below.

Class picture (ca 1900), taken along the road somewhere on our way to Moalboal.

We stayed the night at Bas Dako in Moalboal. Since some of us brought tents, we only rented two rooms. The rest of the afternoon was spent swimming. Because we had our own transportation, we decided to have dinner in one of the town’s carenderias. On the way there, the talk turned somewhat scary in a funny sorta way, courtesy of Ley who had – have – this morbid fascination with being ambushed in a deserted place and hacked to pieces.

Dinner that night was very disappointing, but it did not stop us from enjoying the rest of the night. We had bonfire (we asked and were given permission, providing that we clean our mess afterwards).

Erin and Sean at the beach.

MCPB… har har

Enjoying the water. It’d be nice to go back there.

Bonfire, and booze later. Or was it the other way around?

On the second day of our SRT, we went to Kawasan Falls in Badian and stayed there for a while. Only the kids, Ley and Lex decided to enjoy the water. The place was so crowded during that time that most of us decided to just enjoy the view.

After Kawasan, we visited some old churches (we were sad to learn later that a fire destroyed Oslob Church) and one cemetery (where we again posed for our class picture).

Beside some church (I think it was Oslob Church)

Seaside group pics, minus the kids and Line and her papa.

Top left: Jen and Ley.  Top right: Ivan. Bottom: Yam, Jen, Ley

Group pic in a cemetery.

… afterwards, just hanging about, enjoying the peace and the quiet.

Thankfully, our dinner at Alex Kafe in Argao more than made up for the dinner the night before. Also, despite the late hour, we were allowed to go inside Argao”s museum (I don’t know if it really was called a museum). After spending some more time looking around and taking more pictures, we decided to end our 2-day SRT and head home.

At Alex Kafe, while waiting for our food. Ivan was trying to see if he could look as pretty as Erin haha.

Below, last group pictures before going home.

*** All pictures are from Line.